Don't Follow Me, I'm Married by Brenda Fassie (2023)

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I I I I'm in love
I I I I'm in love
I I I I'm in love

Kept on falling in and out of love
Now I found my man
Finally my dreams have come true
I'm no more a lonely girl

I'm in love I'm married
I'm in love I'm occupied

I've been lonely for so long
People call me names
They say I'm no good they think I'm crazy
Can't you see, I found my man
I'm in love (Don't follow me I'm married) I'm married
I'm in love (Don't follow me I'm happy) and I'm happy

They say I ain't got no direction
Maybe my mama never taught me
Here I am with my future man
I'm no more a lonely girl
I'm in love, I'm married
I'm in love, I'm occupied

I've been lonely for so long
People call me names
They say I'm no good, they think I'm crazy
Can't you see, I found my man
I'm in love, I'm married
I'm in love, and I'm happy

(I I I I'm in love) Yes I'm in love
I'm happy

Kept on falling in and out of love
But now, now I found my man
Finally my dreams have come true
I'm no more a lonely girl
I'm in love, I'm married
I'm in love and I'm happy
Yeah I'm in love
I'm married
I'm in love

Don't bother me (Don't follow me I'm married)
I'm in love (Don't follow me I'm happy)
Don't bother me, don't bother me (Don't follow me I'm married )
I I I I I'm in love (Don't follow me I'm happy)
Don't follow me (Don't follow me I'm married)
(Don't follow me I'm happy)

(Don't follow me I'm married)
(Don't follow me I'm happy) And I'm happy

(Don't follow me I'm married) I'm in love
(Don't follow me I'm happy) Don't bother me, don't bother me

(Don't follow me I'm married) Don't bother me, don't bother me no more
(Don't follow me I'm happy) I'm married

(Don't follow me I'm married) I'm happy. I'm married
(Don't follow me I'm happy) Yes I'm happy

(Don't follow me I'm married) Don't bother me, don't bother me
(Don't follow me I'm happy) I'm married

(Don't follow me I'm married) Can't you see I'm happy
Can't you see (Don't follow me I'm happy) Can't you see I'm married

Don't bother me no more (Don't follow me I'm married) I'm married
Don't bother me no more (Don't follow me I'm happy) I'm happy


Overall Meaning


In the song "Don't Follow Me I'm Married," Brenda Fassie sings about how she has found love and is now married. She talks about how people used to call her names and say that she was no good and crazy, but she has found her "future man" and is no longer lonely. She repeats the line "I'm in love, I'm married, I'm occupied" several times throughout the song, expressing her happiness and contentment with her new relationship.

The lyrics also suggest that Brenda may have felt lost or directionless before finding love. She sings "They say I ain't got no direction, maybe my mama never taught me," but then asserts that she has now found her way and is no longer a "lonely girl." The chorus of the song, where she repeatedly tells people not to bother her because she is married and happy, emphasizes her newfound confidence and security in her relationship.

Overall, "Don't Follow Me I'm Married" is a celebration of love and commitment. Brenda Fassie's powerful vocals and catchy melody make the song an anthem for anyone who has found love after feeling lost and alone.

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(Video) BRENDA & THE BIG DUDES - Don't Follow Me I'm Married


I I I I'm in love
I am deeply in love

Kept on falling in and out of loveNow I found my manFinally my dreams have come trueI'm no more a lonely girlI'm in love I'm marriedI'm in love I'm occupied
I've experienced frequent heartbreaks in the past, but now I've found the man of my dreams and I'm married to him. I'm no longer a lonely girl but a satisfied, occupied, and fulfilled wife.

They say I ain't got no directionMaybe my mama never taught meHere I am with my future manI'm no more a lonely girlI'm in love, I'm marriedI'm in love, I'm occupied
People have criticized me in the past, saying I have no sense of direction, but now I have a bright future with my husband. I'm no longer alone and I'm happily married and occupied.

(I I I I'm in love) Yes I'm in loveI'm happy
I'm not just in love, but I'm also happy with my marriage.

Don't bother me (Don't follow me I'm married)I'm in love (Don't follow me I'm happy)Don't bother me, don't bother me (Don't follow me I'm married )I I I I I'm in love (Don't follow me I'm happy)Don't follow me (Don't follow me I'm married)(Don't follow me I'm happy)
I don't want any interference from anyone, don't follow me just because I'm married, I'm both married and happy, please don't bother me.

(Don't follow me I'm married)(Don't follow me I'm happy) And I'm happy
I'm happily married and I don't want any disturbance. Don't follow me because I'm married, and don't bother me, I'm happy.

(Don't follow me I'm married) I'm in love(Don't follow me I'm happy) Don't bother me, don't bother me
Again, I don't want any attention or disturbance from anyone because I'm happily married, in love and fulfilled.

(Don't follow me I'm married) I'm happy. I'm married(Don't follow me I'm happy) Yes I'm happy
I'm just happy with my marriage, please don't follow me, I'm married and fulfilled. And yes, I'm also happy.

(Don't follow me I'm married) Don't bother me, don't bother me(Don't follow me I'm happy) I'm married
For the umpteenth time, I don't want any disturbance, don't follow me because I'm happily married and content with my life.

(Don't follow me I'm married) Can't you see I'm happyCan't you see (Don't follow me I'm happy) Can't you see I'm married
It's clear to everyone that I'm happily married and satisfied with my life, so please don't follow me or bother me in any way.

Don't bother me no more (Don't follow me I'm married) I'm marriedDon't bother me no more (Don't follow me I'm happy) I'm happy
I repeat, I don't want any disturbance from anyone. Don't follow me or bother me, I'm happily married and fulfilled.


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Brenda Fassie

Brenda Fassie

Brenda Fassie (November 3, 1964 – May 9, 2004), was a legendary South African pop singer and widely considered the voice for disenfranchised blacks during apartheid. She was affectionately known as the Queen of African Pop. Brenda was born in Langa, Cape Town as the youngest of 9 children. She was named after Brenda Lee, an American country singer. Her father died when she was 2, and with the help of her mother, a pianist, she started earning money by singing for tourists. Read Full BioBrenda Fassie (November 3, 1964 – May 9, 2004), was a legendary South African pop singer and widely considered the voice for disenfranchised blacks during apartheid. She was affectionately known as the Queen of African Pop. Brenda was born in Langa, Cape Town as the youngest of 9 children. She was named after Brenda Lee, an American country singer. Her father died when she was 2, and with the help of her mother, a pianist, she started earning money by singing for tourists.

In 1981, at the age of 16, she left Cape Town for Soweto, Johannesburg to seek her fortune as a singer. Brenda first joined the group Joy and later became the lead singer for the township pop group Brenda And The Big Dudes. She had a son, Bongani, in 1985 by a fellow Big Dudes musician. Brenda married ex-convict Nhlanhla Mbambo in 1989 but later in 1991 got divorced. It was around this time that she became addicted to cocaine and her career suffered.

With very outspoken views and frequent visits to the poorer townships of Johannesburg, as well as songs about life in the townships, she enjoyed tremendous popularity. Known best for her songs "Weekend Special" and "Too Late for Mama", she was called by Time Magazine in 2001 "The Madonna of the Townships".

In a drug-related incident in 1995 she was discovered unconscious with the body of her lover, Poppie Sihlahla, who had died of an apparent overdose. Fassie survived, underwent rehabilitation, and got her career back on track. However, she still had drug problems and returned to drug rehabilitation clinics about 30 times in her life.

Since 1996 she released several solo albums like "Now Is The Time", "Memeza" (1997, the best selling album in South Africa) or "Nomakanjani?". Most of her albums became multi-platinum sellers in South Africa.

On the morning of 26 April 2004, Brenda collapsed at her home in Buccleuch and was admitted into the Sunninghill hospital in Johannesburg. The press were told that she had suffered cardiac arrest but later reported that she had slipped into a coma brought on by an asthma attack. The post-mortem report revealed that she had taken an overdose of cocaine in the night of her collapse, and this was the cause of her coma. She stopped breathing and suffered brain damage from lack of oxygen. Brenda died at age 39 on 9 May 2004 in hospital without returning to consciousness after her life support machines were turned off. According to the South African Sunday Times and the managers of her music company, the post-mortem report also showed that she was HIV-positive. Her manager, Peter Snyman, denied this aspect of the report.

She was voted 17th in the Top 100 Great South Africans.

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External link: Brenda Fassie: A very human hero (BBC News)

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02Vuli Ndlela

03Sum' Bulala

04Vuli Ndlela (Remix)

05Qula

06Jiva

07Weekend Special

08Too Late For Mama

09Nomakanjani

10Vul'indela

11Ama-Gents

12Boipatong

13Thola Amadlozi

14Ngeke Umconfirm

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15Black President

16Kuyoze Kuyovalwa

17Ngiyakuthanda Papa Wemba

18Nakupenda (I Love You)

19Mingi Mingi (Norman Jay remix)

20Vuli Ndlela - - Original Album Version

21Sum'bulala

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Comments from YouTube:

Edwin Maluleke

She was so beautiful in this video. She’s an icon, her vocals are unmatched. She deserves Billion views - all her songs are amazing - I love her

SunGoddess Beauty

Because she was a new bride, She is dancing with Nhlanhla the husband.

Sthe_ZAR

💯🔥.

Mihlali Rennie

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these visuals are iconic, Brenda was a true pop icon.❤🔥

Sthe_ZAR

One of my absolute favourites by Her Majesty Mabrrrr 👑🇿🇦🙌🏾 🙌🏾🙌🏾.

Bruh Raizo

We love you and all the legacy you leaving to all of us Queen mabrrr! I thank God for you.👑👏🏽🥰👑❤️

Sakaria Mwiiyale

Simply classic and as yet unparalleled. 💪

Thamsanqa Donnavan

This is the guy that Bongani says treated him better compared to other step fathers BIG UP to him❤

Me

Powerful vocals...

Prince Motshwarakgole

Wooow this song was hit it reminds of my late mother ❤️❤️❤️❤️ this was one of her best song RIP mum

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What was the cause of Brenda's death? ›

At what age did Brenda Fassie died? ›

Fassie was visited in the hospital by Nelson Mandela, Winnie Mandela, and Thabo Mbeki, and her condition was front-page news in South African papers. She died aged 39 on 9 May 2004 in hospital, without regaining consciousness, after her life support machines were turned off.

What language did Brenda Fassie speak? ›

Fassie sang in the English, Xhosa, Sotho, and Zulu languages. Her nicknames were “Madonna of the Townships” and “MaBrrr.” Brenda Nokuzola Fassie was born on November 3, 1964, in Langa, near Cape Town, South Africa.

Is Brenda Fassie still alive? ›

How has Brenda's son died? ›

Jamal's mother, Loose Women panellist Brenda Edwards, said her son's death was "due to a cardiac arrhythmia caused by having taken recreational drugs".

How old was Lundi when he died? ›

Lundi Tyamara: South African gospel star dies aged 38.

Why did Brenda Fassie give Mandela a banana? ›

People keep asking why the banana. She is wearing as school uniform, she is acting like a kid if you will. She has a lunch box. So she took it out of her lunch box and gave it to a friend, teacher or someone a child would like to be friends with.

How many kids did Brenda Fassie have? ›

Bongani Fassie is the only son of the late Brenda Fassie, whom she had together with a fellow Big Dudes member.

Why did Brenda Fassie stop singing in English? ›

She was a political and social sensation. She released Black President in 1990, which the apartheid government banned. Later, Brenda stopped singing in English, because she wanted to glorify black African heritage in her music.

Where was Brenda Fassie buried? ›

Brenda Fassie, South Africa's undisputed queen of pop, was buried at her birthplace in Langa, Cape Town on Saturday 22 May 2004.

Who raised Brenda Fassie? ›

Brenda Nokuzola Fassie's dad died when she was two and she was raised by her mum who made a living as a pianist. Fassie began singing at a very young age and by the age of five, tourists were paying to hear her sing.

Did Brenda Fassie have a child? ›

What did Brenda Fassie say about Yvonne Chaka Chaka? ›

The viral video, shows a performance by the Umqombothi singer, on which she appears to be singing in the wrong pitch and misses some notes. Twitter trolls of course made a joke about the whole video and how the late Brenda Fassie was quoted as saying Yvonne can't sing.

How old is Chaka Chaka? ›

What are some interesting facts about Brenda Fassie? ›

Brenda Fassie was born on November 3, 1964 in Cape Town and named after the singer Brenda Lee. As a toddler she began earning money singing for tourists and at church events. At 16, she left Cape Town for Soweto to pursue a singing career.

How did Jamal Edwards died? ›

In August 2022 an inquest into Edwards's death found the cause to be "cardiac arrhythmia, following cocaine use".

Has Brenda's son been buried? ›

Her son was buried and she finds great comfort in having a place to visit him. Brenda still misses her son dreadfully and sometimes cries inconsolably. However, she knows that her son would not want her to cry and so she says she keeps strong for him.

Which Loose Woman died? ›

Loose Women

In all, Bellingham made more than 300 appearances on the show, including a special appearance in 2014 shortly before her death. Two editions of Loose Women were dedicated to Bellingham after her death.

How old was Sfiso when he died? ›

On December 4, 2016, Ncwane was hospitalized at Life Fourways Hospital, Johannesburg. While there, he passed away at the age of 37.

Where was Lundi Tyamara born? ›

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Worcester is a town in the Western Cape, South Africa. It is the third-largest city in the western cape province of South Africa. It is located 120 kilometres north-east of Cape Town on the N1 highway north to Johannesburg.
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How many albums does Lundi have? ›

Over the course of 10-plus albums and countless concerts throughout South Africa, he innovated a style of gospel that showcased his R&B-infused vocals, sprightly percussion, and infectious vitality.

Why did banana turn black? ›

Why do bananas go black in the fridge? The thing with bananas is that they emit a lot of ethylene gas, which is a ripening agent. A green banana, a tropical fruit, will stop ripening in a cold environment but the gas continues to be released. This will break down cell walls and so the peel becomes black.

Why did Mandela divorce his first wife Evelyn? ›

After Mandela met Winnie Madikizela and embarked on a relationship with her, he filed for a divorce from Mase, which Mase did not contest. Their marriage was formally dissolved on 18 March 1958.

What was the affectionate name for Mandela? ›

Mr Mandela is often referred to as “Khulu”, which means great, paramount, grand. The speaker means “Great One” when referring to Mr Mandela in this way. It is also a shortened form of the isiXhosa word “Tat'omkhulu” for “grandfather”.

What was the relationship between Brenda Fassie and Nelson Mandela? ›

Fassie was a South African pop star who gained international fame for her work and for the many media storms that built up around her. She was the niece of the famed activist-turned-president, Nelson Mandela, and held many of the same political stances throughout her life.

Who is known as South Africa's queen of pop? ›

Brenda Fassie was a South African pop singer. She was known as South Africa's queen of pop music. Her other nicknames included “Madonna of the Townships” and “MaBrrr.”

Does Chicco Twala own the Brenda Fassie name? ›

Chicco was Brenda's manager and producer prior to her death. Bongani told TshisaLIVE that he would be releasing a statement to address the matter in full, but that Chicco did not own Brenda or her family. "Chicco does not own Brenda.

Why did Madonna's voice change? ›

During the filming of Evita, Madonna had to take vocal lessons, which increased her range. So her voice grew much deeper and fuller. Of this experience, she has been quoted saying that she studied with a vocal coach for Evita and realized there was a whole piece of her voice she wasn't using.

What country singer lost her voice? ›

"After last night's show I started losing my voice so I spent the day resting up, talking to my doctor and working through my vocal exercises trying to get better," Wallen wrote.

Who did Brenda Fassie leave behind? ›

She left behind a 19-year-old son, Bongani Fassie.

Where is Patsy Montana buried? ›

Montana died on May 3, 1996, at her home in San Jacinto, California. As Paul Rose served in the United States Army, she is buried at Riverside National Cemetery in Riverside, California.

Where did Brenda Fassie attend school? ›

"[Born in November 1964], Brenda Fassie was born into a family of nine children and she was the youngest. She first attend[ed] Thembani Lower Primary and then Moshesh Primary School in Langa, Cape Town. At the age of four, Brenda step[ed] on stage for the first time with a group called the Tiny Tots.

What happened to Caroline Fassie? ›

After her Selimathunzi stint it seemed like Caroline Fassie disappeared from the entertainment industry for good, it was later on revealed that she worked at the SABC's music department for a while. Caroline Fassie was also the niece of the late Brenda Fassie.

What tribe was Brenda Fassie? ›

She could call herself the niece of former President Mandela (she was a member of the same Madiba clan of the Xhosas) and refer to him as a ''bloody jailbird'' in the same sentence and still be forgiven. (He, his former wife Winnie and President Thabo Mbeki all visited her in the hospital before her death.)

How is Brenda Fassie remembered? ›

Queen of African pop:

The success of Weekend Special and Too Late For Mama made her the most popular South African musician of her time. Brenda was also known as “Madonna of The Townships” or simply as “The Black Madonna” to international media due to her popularity and catchy pop songs.

Who is Brenda Fassie's son? ›

How old is Brenda Fassie this year? ›

Brenda Fassie was discovered collapsed at her home in Buccleuch, Gauteng on the morning of April 26th, 2004, and was then taken to a Sunninghill hospital. She remained at the hospital until she died on May 9th at 39 years old.

How old is Lebo Mathosa? ›

Did Brenda Fassie have siblings? ›

When was Brenda Fassie funeral? ›

The local singer, who died in Johannesburg at the weekend, would now be laid to rest in Langa township in Cape Town on May 23.

Who is the father of Yvonne Chaka Chaka? ›

What Chaka means? ›

In Hebrew Baby Names the meaning of the name Chaka is: Life.

What does Chaka Chaka mean in Brazil? ›

Cachaça (Portuguese pronunciation: [kaˈʃasɐ]) is a distilled spirit made from fermented sugarcane juice. Also known as pinga, caninha, and other names, it is the most popular spirit among distilled alcoholic beverages in Brazil.

What does Shakashaka mean in Brazil? ›

In coastal Brazil, the shaka sign, known as the "hang loose" (also derived from an eponymous clothing brand, which uses the shaka as a logo), is a common gesture; Ronaldinho usually celebrated the goals he scored by giving the crowd a double shaka.

How old was Brenda when she died? ›

Which 3 South African prominent people visited Brenda Fassie on her hospital bed? ›

Prominent South Africans, including President Thabo Mbeki and much of his cabinet, Nelson Mandela, Winnie Madikizela-Mandela, members of the entertainment industry and other well-wishers began streaming to Sunninghill Hospital to visit her.

What are two popular songs by Brenda Fassie? ›

We'll just concentrate on her musical legacy here with her ten best songs.
  • “Kuyoze Kuyovalwa" (1994) ...
  • “No! ...
  • “I Straight Lendaba" (1992) ...
  • “Ngeke Unconfirm" (1995) ...
  • “Higher and Higher" (1985) ...
  • “Black President" (1990) ...
  • “Memeza" (1997) ...
  • “Vul'indlela" (1997)

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